I collected Sandras words written in the hospice and during her illness . I also collated my writing during her illness and afterwards - i am currenty working on making these into a book.

When Sandra was dying she asked me to organise a play of our story in a big theatre - i kept my promise after she died and the play took play on her birthday in 2022 at the Epstein Theate to a sold out audience. Actresses Leanne Best and Yolanda Kettle played Sandra and I. The play is now being further developed to take on tour. Click here to find out more

I painted and drew as a way of expressing my personal grief and our love story. Click here to see more

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